This is why you’re not getting any.

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Anal sex has been around since the dawn of time. Why? Because humans are curious. When there’s a problem, we want to fix it, and where there’s a hole… somebody will stick something in it in the name of science and pleasure.

“Nowadays, you can do anything that…


Free your kinks and send your fears away.

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Who’s in charge of your sexual pleasure?


An empathic guide to cutting all ties when there’s no other choice

Cartoon of a chain breaking.
Cartoon of a chain breaking.
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Have you ever felt the need to cut ties with a highly toxic person who plays a significant role in your life? I have. On more than one occasion, regrettably, I have been involved with narcissistic people.

What Ghosting Is All About

Ghosting is a radical way to set effective boundaries with people who lack empathy or…


Let all your secret kinks out.

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What type of porn do you like?

This Latin M.O. is slowly flourishing internationally.

This trumpet-shaped flower is characteristic of the “drunken binge tree.” Designed in Canva by Nataly U.

Even 40 years after Pablo Escobar’s death and an extensive drug war fought with international aid, Colombia hasn’t been able to wash out the reputation of being a dangerous vacay destination.

It could be your boss, a co-worker, or even a client.

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Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is as real as it gets. The thing is that people with this mental illness tend to achieve success quickly in the business/entrepreneurial environment.

  1. You’ll inevitably find people with NPD throughout your career.
    It will take time for you to figure out whether you’re working for a competent businessperson or with a total fluke with a degree in kissing the right behinds and a master in stealing their coworker’s ideas.
  2. As opposed to their self-aware counterparts, a Narcissist’s ambition and charming ways help them climb the corporate stairs even if they aren’t…

An 8 step guide to preventing Karens from ruining your biz.

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Independence, being able to make your own schedule, letting your creativity run free…Those are some of the main reasons why many of us request discharge from the “industrial reserve army” by starting a new side hustle as freelance content creators.


No! But here’s what you gotta do to keep your writing alive.

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Since P.S. I Love You imploded, being a relationships writer myself -one that pitched dozens of stories to them and never made the cut- I couldn’t help but ask myself some questions about my professional future here in Medium.

  • Is the love and relationships niche saturated?
  • Have we abused the topic to the point of exhaustion?
  • Is nobody interested in loving each other anymore?
  • Should I become a productivity/personal growth author?
  • Is Medium a black, empty void for heartless writers?

Nah, Medium does have a softer, romantic side. …

Because creating content is an ever-changing gig.

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Sometimes professional change is an option, but we often find ourselves facing situations beyond our control. The sudden and very uncomfortable processes we all go through in an ever-changing global economy demands we rethink our side hustles into flexible tools to achieve a not-so-flexible objective.

We live inside a black box:

When you’re in your 20’s, you think you have everything figured out. After graduating from high school, you find your passion, work hard…

Have your cake and eat it too!

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Having a side hustle might be the only way to get by when working with low wages, economic uncertainty, and the high cost of living, but where do you start? How can you figure out the right side job for you?

Nataly U

Professional Hustler, Digital Nomad. Writing about humans, sex, and Intriguing Stuff. Like what you’ve read? How about a coffee?

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